Woman Sex Toy Guide:
Everything You Wanted Know about Sex Toys
But Where to Embarrassed to Ask
Plus A-Z Sex Toys
New research into woman sex toy usage is breaking cultural taboos.
The ulitmate questions are: 
Do you needl more sexually satisfaction?
Do you need to introduce novelty and creativity in your sex life?
The answer for many women can be found by starting to use a woman's
sex toy! You will be supprised to hear what women are really feeling
but NOT saying.
In a study of women using vibrators Laura Berman, Ph.D., states
women using vibrators leads to 6 key women's sexual health benefits
[1]:
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woman sex toy benefit #1: Better sexual functioning.
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woman sex toy benefit #2: Increased interested in sex,
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woman sex toy benefit #3: Achieve heightened arousal
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woman sex toy benefit #4: Have an easier time reaching
orgasm
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woman sex toy benefit #5: Experience less pain during
and after sex (This includes all sexual activity -- not just
when women were using a sex aid)
- woman sex toy benefit #6:Increased Quality of life (yup
that's right - this is what has been reported)
Dr. Berman's study on woman sex toy usage reported these surprising
results:
Woman Sex Toy Study On Popularity
- More than 55 percent of women in relationships reported using
a vibrator as a woman sex toy
- 34 percent of singles use a woman sex toy
Woman Sex Toy Report On Usage
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2/3 of women in relationships said their partner was supportive
of their use of a woman sex toy
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Nearly 1/2 used their woman sex toy/sexual aid with a partner,
in addition to using it by themselves.
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Surprise! Four percent of women reported that their male partners
borrowed their vibrators for their own use.
Dr. Berman summarizes, "And make no mistake -- far from taking
the place of a partner, sexual devices work to enhance relationship
sex by giving women (and men) a window into what pleases her, which
only makes sex better"
There seems to be universal sexpert support of women to use sexual
toys as a health expression to explore and experience one's sexuality.
It appears that woman sex toy usage may reduce anxiety and performance
woes - increased comfort levels with one's body is essential for great sex!
Woman Sex Toys Provide Health Fun
According to the sex experts in the book, "Sex Matters to
Women", when you can consider sex as a great source of humor
and joy - sex toys and sex props are the perfect answer for all
ages [2].
The old axiom that someones sexual food is anothers passion killer
is a timeless piece of wisdom that you need to always think of when
exploring your options with sexual toys and sexual aids.
Also women need to be warn a about common responses fo sex toys
from men.
Even though sex toys have become increasingly accepted as form
of sexual expression - many men still view a woman sex toy as threating.
This attitude is known as the "The Natural is Best" myth.
It is an attitude that maintains the taboo of sex toys as something
of a perversion.
Sex expert Salley Kope writes:
"Somehow many people have gotten the idea that an orgasm
should come only from a penis and vagina ... heaven forbid ...
that an orgasm ever be triggerred by some inanimate or mechanical.
And if love is not enough to stimulate passion, they conclude
the relationship must be in trouble." [2]
She argues that sex toys are a natural extension of sexual rituals.
In other words, sex toys are merely a matter of comfort with ones
own sexuality.
She concludes that when sex toys can be used playfully by a couple,
they can provide novelity, excitment, and fun!
A-Z Sexual Toy Guide
References
- Berman, L. The Health Benefits of Sexual Aids and Devices http://www.newshe.com/pdf/research%20design.pdf
( For
more information on Woman Sex Toy Study)
- Fole, S., Kope, S., Sugrue, D, Sex Matters For Women, The Guildford
Press, 2002
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