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Will your sex
life improve if you know more sex positions? The first step is to understand your sexual compatibility - not only what how you like to give and recieve pleasure, but also your genital size and shape, temperment and emotional state.
"Everything You Wanted to Know About Better Sex" can be understood in one simple way...
Just think about this a little deeper and you will uncover a little secret that every great lover knows...
Yes, it is a necessary starting point, but it is not enough to be a greater lover.
Even the Kama Sutra warns of the dangerous assumptions about "Sexual Conquest".
If lovemaking was as easy as knowing sexual positions, everybody would be a great lover.
There are literally hundreds of modern books written on the subject
of sex, many based on the theme that to learn new postures
will lead to better sex.
While knowledge of more positions can lead to better sex
it alone will NOT mean you will
have better sex.
The most important lesson on this page is not to fall victim
to the "do this - get that" mindset. Most Sex experts agree you need a road map, not a instruction manual.
Good sex is about knowing how to give each moment EXACTLY
what it needs.
It is the ultimate balancing act and when achieved with love - it represents the ultimate bond between human beings.
That is why we distinguish between making love and having sex.
In practical words, it means moving from sex position to sex position
naturally in an effortless flow that is like first time everytime!
So for that reason the positions listed are descriptive,
not prescriptive.
In other words the sex positions on this web page are not provided
to solve a sexual problem.
Just think of sex positions as the "alphabet" of the
language of love. Knowning the letters will not mean that you will
write the great American novel.
But with that said, knowing more sex positions will increase your
chance for better and greater sex.
Real sex between experienced partners usually shifts from
position to position during a single session, at the whim
of their lover.
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In the Indian Kama Sutra and
Arabic Perfumed Garden, the act and manner of sex was an art-form.
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In the Khajuraho statues, it has religious meaning.
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The Joy of Sex was one of the first widely accepted modern
sex manuals to describe sexual positions.
In the Kama Sutra, sixty-four sex positions are explained as arts.
These may be considered yoga positions for a couple. Tantric yoga,
as applied to couples is sometimes called the yoga of union and
is the supposed spiritual context for these positions.
Once again, if you are serious about learning and actually applying these new
sex positions then consider finding a support forum.
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Here is some food for thought....
today's sex advice and education material reference the body
of knowledge found in the Tantric writings and so we recommend
you go straight to the source.
However, if your not comfortable exploring the Tantric Sex pratices online
a great alternative choice is to explore the educational learning
material from the
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Institute Better Sex Video Series.
Both
these educational resources cover the topics you read on this
page.
There are also a vast number of sex positions for oral sex (including
cunnilingus and fellatio) and mutual masturbation, which are too
numerous to list here.
While not all of these positions will necessarily be as stimulating
or as satisfying for both partners as other positions, a couple
may develop a rotation among these sex positions.
Some may be more physically difficult or tiring for one partner,
while others offer a break or resting point that will maintain a
particular level of passion. In a sense, a set rotation though favored
positions may be compared to a complex and progressive musical piece,
such as a sonata or symphony.
An alternation of positions favored by each partner can be particularly
delightful when understood in the larger give-and-take common in
interpersonal relationships.
Each couple may in this way develop their unique "song of
love".
The musical symphonic work Bolero, written by Maurice Ravel, is
thought by many to be intentionally evocative of the progression
of:
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caressing
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positions
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intensities
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satisfactions of lovemaking
Note that the piece is about 22 minutes long - thought by many
men to be rather long for this use and by many women to be too short
:)!
Since the most common sexual activity worldwide is heterosexual
vaginal intercourse, the positions listed are described in terms
of one male participant and one vaginally receptive female participant.
However, most of these positions can also be adapted as anal sex
positions, although some with difficulty due to the different angle
of rectal vs. vaginal entry.
Similar provisions apply for frottage, tribadism, the use of double-ended
dildos or strap-on dildos, and so on.
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Common Sex Positions
6 Missionary Sexual Positions
Female Superior (On Top)
7 From Behind Sexual Positions
8 Sitting and Kneeling Sexual Positions
2 Standing Sexual Positions
5 Sexual Positions to obtain
pregnancy
8 Less common sexual positions
4 Acrobatic Sexual Positions
3 Genital to other Sexual Positions
2 Same-sex activities
Use
of special apparatus
5 Group Sexual Positions
These are the most widely known sex positions, and are widespread
and prevalent during the act of sex.
Some of these sex positions can be used in sex between two men
or two women.
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Missionary Sex Positions
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Deckchair positionMissionary – most common position; man
on top with direct penetration; woman on bottom, legs open.
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Side entry missionary – variant on the missionary position;
woman on side; man kneeling penetrates from behind.
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Squashing of the deckchair – woman on bottom, legs pulled
up; man on top, holds woman's legs.
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Peace Sign – woman on bottom, legs tightly closed.
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Butterfly Position – woman lies on her back, man stands
and lifts her pelvis for penetration
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Coital Alignment Technique – variant on the missionary
position
- Feet on his shoulders – her feet behind his head resting
them on his shoulders.
Woman on top (VERY VERY IMPORTANT TO MASTER!!)
- Cowgirl - the male partner lies on his back or sits down in a chair, couch, etc... the female partner sits on top of them while facing them, with the mans's body between her legs. women now cab aligns her vagina or anus over the phallus to control penetration
The cowgirl name comes from the image of the female partner "riding" the man as a cowboy rides a bucking horse.
- Revers Cowgirl - also called the reverse Amazon or Queen's position in which the woman turns around so that see is look at the mans feet
Variations Include:
- Kneling
- Squating
- good for vaginal or anal sex
- Kama sutra describes 360 degree rotating of female with penetration.
Benefits:
- Very intimate with eye and full body contact.
- Woman can easily stimulate her clitorous (clitoros)
- Man can rest and delay ejaculation
- Woman can control the depth, angle and intensity of penetration.
- Receiving women may enjoy the dominant feeling of being on top and in control.
- Used for vaginal or anal sex
- Man can have access to woman's ass for spanking
- Woman can reach under man to stimulate anus or testicles
From behind Sex Positions
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Doggy – man penetrates from behind; woman on all fours,
facing down.
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Leapfrog – variant on the Doggy position; woman torso
is lower; also known as "face down ass up".
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Upright doggy – variant on the doggy position; woman kneels
upright.
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Spread-eagle – woman lies facing down, legs spread open;
man on top. also known as the spider position.
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Spoons position – side by side, both facing in same direction;
man penetrates from behind.
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Reverse Peace Sign – variant of Peace Sign, woman lies
face down, knees held together.
Sitting and kneeling Sex Positions
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Armchair – variant on the watching the game; woman sits
in a chair; man kneels in front of the woman.
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Black bee – man sits, hands behind on the floor; woman
sits on top, hands on shoulders.
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Furniture – woman on the edge of furniture, legs spread;
man kneels.
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Persuading of the debtor – man penetrates kneeling; woman
on back, ankles on each side of man's shoulders.
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Playing of the cello – woman on back, ankles on one of
the man's shoulders; man kneeling penetrates from back; also
known as Playing of the violin.
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Proposal – woman kneels, legs apart; man kneels, one knee
on ground.
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Split level – woman on bottom, legs around man; man kneels.
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Watching the game – variant on the cowgirl position; man
sits in a chair; woman sits, facing the man; also known as the
Lap dance.
Standing Sex Positions
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Reverse piggy-back – man penetrates standing; woman lifted,
wrapping legs around man; can be done free-standing or up against
an upright surface. Also know as the tree position.
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Stand and carry – man stands, holding woman; woman wraps
legs around man's waist and arms around man's shoulders.
Sex Positions to obtain pregnancy
The goal is to prevent excessive pressure on the belly and to restrict
penetration as required by the particular male partner.
Some of the positions below are popular sex postions for sex during
pregnancy.
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Missionary with caution
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Spoon
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Leapfrog
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Cowgirl
- Spread-eagle
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Less common sex positions
These positions are more innovative, and perhaps not as widely known
and practised as the ones listed above.
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Reverse Amazon – variant on the cowgirl position; also
known as 'Riding of the Steer'.
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Horizontal reverse – variant on the reverse cowgirl; woman
on top, facing down with torso lower; man on bottom.
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Cross – woman on bottom; man on top perpendicular.
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Head to toe – man on back, legs spread; woman on back
on top, legs spread; both facing different directions,
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Rocking chair – man on bottom; woman on all fours, facing
up.
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K – Man and woman lie on backs, heads pointed away from
one another; each places one leg on other's shoulder (using
it for bracing) and the other leg out somewhat to the side so
that they form a capital K.
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T-square position – woman on her back with knees up and
legs apart, man lies on his side perpendicular to her, with
his hips under the arch formed by her legs. Good during pregnancy.
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Drilling for Oil – woman lies on her shoulders with her
back up against a bed or couch (sort of a head-stand, except
on shoulders) and legs folded toward her head. Man stands astride
her vagina and inserts from a standing position
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Acrobatic skill / extreme agility required
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Advanced black bee – variant on the Black bee; man sits,
hands behind on the floor; woman sits on top, hands and legs
on shoulders.
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Toilet – variant on the reverse cowgirl position; man
on back upside down, knees bent; woman sits on man.
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96 – variant of the 69. Partner 1 lies on their back;
partner 2 kneels over partner 1's face so that their body faces
partner 1's head and arches their back so as to be able orally
stimulate partner 1's genitals.
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Helicopter fuck - like the doggie position, but with the man
balancing himself on the woman's behind while using his inserted
penis as an axle. The man then rotates around the axle like
helicopter blades. Requires the penis to be bent downwards at
an extreme angle, so may find this too difficult.
Genital to other
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interfemoral intercourse a.k.a. intercrural intercourse (with
the penis between the legs or thighs, perhaps rubbing the vulva,
scrotum or perineum)
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mammary intercourse (with the penis between the breasts)
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axillary intercourse (with the penis in the armpit)
Same-sex activities For Women On Women
As mentioned earlier, women can engage in tribadism with or without
double-ended dildos and men can engage in penis-to-penis frottage,
the anatomical pairings involved enable positions which heterosexual
couples might find difficult or impossible.
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Mutual masturbation can also be differently choreographed for
homosexuality, for instance a man can stimulate his and a partner's
(or multiple partners') penises simultaneously with only one hand.
The following activities are only possible between partners of
the same sex:
Use of special apparatus
Most sex acts are typically performed on a bed or other platform.
As the range of supports available increases, the range of positions
that are possible increases (for example, see the sitting and standing
positions above).
Various forms of erotic furniture and other apparatus such as fisting
slings and trapezes have been used to facilitate even more exotic
sexual positions.
Various assemblages of people may participate in group sex, having
the common characteristic structure of participating in a sexual
act.
Group sex
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Orgy
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Exhibitionism
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Voyeurism
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Sandwich or Double penetration: in which two men are engaged
sexually with a woman simultaneously, one of them is inserting
his penis into the vagina, while the other is inserting his
penis into the anus.
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Spitroast: the simultaneous penetration of the mouth and the
vagina or anus.
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Daisy chain: a group of men simultaneously penetrating and
being penetrated by each other anally in a chain formation;
a group of men, women, or both, each performing oral sex on
the next.
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Isosceles Lock: in which three men perform fellatio in a triangular
configuration.
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Lucky Pierre: in which a man has vaginal sex with a woman,
whilst himself being anally penetrated by another man.
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