Kama Sutra Reveals Hidden
Sexual Secrets For Women

Learn how The Ancient Secrets Can Renew Your Sex Life!

Kama Sutra!

Just saying the word elicits powerful erotic images.

Perhaps steamy visions of an erotic ancient world … were couples experience the magical powers of sex in bizarre sexual exploits.

Hopefully, in this article, you will discover that the Kama Sutra is much more than just a book on sex positions.

In fact only 20% of the original text is dedicated to sex positions!

There is an important lesson in this book that is often neglected by popular media.

More than just a pillow book, the Kama Sutra is an extensive guide to the labyrinth of sexual etiquette for both an ancient and modern world.

It contains detailed steps from:

• How to bathe before meeting a lover
  
  
• How lovers should entertain each other after making love

Admittedly, the original text is dated and culture-bound in places.

Also, be WARNED it can be also very:

• Chauvinistic

• Bizarre

• Violent
  

If you are serious about wanting to learn more about the Kama Sutra and how to to apply time-tested techniques to your sex life you can download the orginal transciption from this website.

For support and guidance you can join this great forum dedicated to the art of tantric sex for beginners or advance levels.

Loving Passion for 100 years

However, the continued fascination of this sex manual is a testimony to its current relevance to the western world.

To the modern women the Kama Sutra can be a valuable guide to establishing how sexuality can be a way of life - it speaks to issues of sexuality beyond the acts of sex.

When you read the Kama Sutra and do not focus on accomplishing distorted poses, as if they were athletic feats almost every woman at any age can increase her capacity for sexual fulfillment.

Of course better sex is a very welcomed outcome when learning about the Kama Sutra.

But more importantly it speaks to the necessary "relationship dynamic" between a woman and man to create a lifetime of passion and love.

"Thus if men and women act according to each others liking, their love for each other will not be lessened even in one hundred years!" [1] Part 2, Chapter IV

Devadatta Shastri, a modern translator of the Kama Sutra describe the outcome that results from the successful practice of the philosophy:

"At the moment when the peak of bliss is attained, the internal and external world vanish. The man and woman cease to be separate entities and lose themselves in the beatitudes of being."

Devadatta Shastri encourages readers to emphasize:

• Pressure points
  
  
• Manners
  
  
• Artistic freedom
  
  
• Finding and pursuing a loving sexual relationship rather than an overly choreographed one

Written for a Man, Designed for A Woman

Although the Kama Sutra was written for men, it was really designed for the benefit of women!

The Kama Sutra is organized in 7 Parts, 36 Chapters, 64 Paragraphs that track men through life.

1. In Part 1, the bachelor sets-up his pad.
   
   
2. In Part 2, he perfects his sexual techniques. This is the book that has inspired the modern Kama Sutra industry of how-to: books, videos, games and everything else that under the banner of the Kama Sutra.
   
   
3. In Part 3, our young man seduces a virgin
   
   
4. In Part 4, he marries and sets-up a household for his wife and servants.
   
   
5. Part 5, he has grown sexually bored with his wife, and turns to seducing other men's wives.
   
   
6. Part 6, Eventually, as he ages, the effort necessary for such extra-martial activity loses its appeal, so in he takes up with courtesans, who work to please him - but for a price.
   
   
7. Part 7 Finally, in old age, he fears he is losing his potency and attractiveness, so contains recipes for herbal potions to preserve them.

What a Women Can Gain from the Kama Sutra

In Part 2, women are acknowledged as active vivacious partners in sex and demands that men earn ejaculatory control so to last long enough to bring his partner to orgasm:

"Females do not emit as males do. The males simply remove their desires, while the females, from their consciousness of desire, feel a certain kind of pleasure, which gives them satisfaction, but it is not impossible for them to tell you what kind of pleasure they feel. The fact from which this becomes evident is, that males, when engaged in coition, cease of themselves after emission, and are satisfied, but it is not so with females." [1] Part 2 Chapter I

Apparently, Vatsyayana the great sexual author of the Kama Sutra didn't know that many women simply do not reach orgasm solely from intercourse no matter how long it lasts.

A good example of the roots of a modern myth that is over 1,500 years old!


Nonetheless, the Kama Sutra is very attentive to women's pleasure, a view that arrived in our culture only a few decades ago (read more in Sexual Success Article), and a view that is still lost on many men!

Similar to many ancient Eastern sex manuals, Part 2 instructs men to treat women in such a way:

"that she achieves her sexual climax first."

It also instructs men what to observe if his partner is satisfied or is not satisfied and what to do about it!

How Can a Man Learn to Please A Woman?

The answer given 1,500 years ago in the Kama Sutra was to become:

1. Knowledgeable about the arts of sexual pleasure
   
   
2. Become proficient in the arts of sexual pleasure

The most important lesson in Part 2 , for both women and men, is that no two women are alike in their pathway to sexual pleasure.

"Men who are well acquainted with the art of love are well aware how often one woman differs from another in her sighs and sounds during the time of congress.

Some women:

• Like to be talked to in the most loving way
  
  
• Others in the most lustful way
  
  
• Others in the most abusive way, and so on

Some women enjoy themselves with:

• Closed eyes in silence
  
  
• Others make a great noise over it
  
  
• Some almost faint away

The great art is to ascertain what gives them the greatest pleasure, and what specialties they like best. " [1] Part 2 Chapter VII

 

This simple truth has not changed in thousands of years - the critical message for modern women to is to surrender the worries if they are sexually "normal".

Creating a Sexual Match: Are You and Your Partner a Good Fit?

The Kama Sutra opens Part 2 with specific detail about the matching sexual partners by 3 factors:

1. Dimension of Sexual Organs ( 3 types for male and female genital size and depth, respectively)
   
   
2. Force of Passion ( 3 types based on levels of desire)
   
   
3. Time to Satisfaction ( 3 types based on ease to orgasm)

While the instruction is to find an optimal match, the more important lesson is the ability to understand how you and your partner "match" sexually.

Understanding, your sexual fit will allow you to make better choices on what positions are best suited to maximize pleasure.

The art of sex in the Kama Sutra always points back to the ability to read and respond to your partner.

It does not prescribe a single recipes for sexual satisfaction.

The 4-4 Step an Ancient Foreplay Dance for Better Sex

By following Part 2's extensive discussion of the fine points of what today we called "foreplay" a couple can deeper their knowledge of the basic steps to the art of lovemaking:

• Embracing (4 types)
  
  
• Kissing (7 types)
  
  
• Biting (8 types)
  
  
• Pressing (8 types)

In addition to the basic 4 steps there other variations of touch calculated to heighten sexual arousal.

The "Kama Sutra" gets a little wild and kinky by today's standard as it touts:

• Slapping
  
  
• Spanking
  
  
• Scratching
  
  
• Biting

with accompanying sexual sounds of shrieks and moans !

"There are no keener means of increasing passion
than acts inflicted by tooth and nail."

The Kama Sutra even gives praises of scars caused by erotic scratching. It considers them advertisements of erotic prowess:

"Passion and respect arise in a man who sees from a distance
a young girl with the marks of nails cut into her breasts."

Book 2 of the Kama Sutra also advocates use of sex toys, and suggests sex while bathing.

It also describes how:

1. A man can best satisfy 2 women at the same time (fondle one while having intercourse with the other)
   
   
2. how two or more men should comport themselves when sexually sharing one woman (take turns having intercourse, and while one is inside her, the others should fondle her)

Book 3 tells virgins how to attract husbands.

Book 4 instructs women how to be good wives.

Book 6 deals with the skills required of courtesans - including how they should provide for their own old age by stealing from their patrons.

This information to speaks directly to women does not seem odd until you realize that in fourth century India, few if any women could read.

In Part 1, Vatsyayana, openly directs both men and women to study, but he also acknowledges that many of his peers objected to permitting women to study the Kama Sutra.

In the end, the Kama Sutra describes a highly sexual world, one that celebrates unbridled pleasure. It prefers to view pleasure as path rather than end to itself.

It's a sexual world committed to erotic tenderness, yet capable of casual cruelty, a lusty world that venerated sex for its own sake, not just for procreation.

Ultimately, the Kama Sutra is an modern attitude born in an ancient world.

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