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A Better Orgasm By Gabrielle Moore
As you know, there are hundreds of myths about the female orgasm. But, the question is: are they all true? Of course not!
Here are some of the most common myths:
- Women take longer to reach orgasm than men.
- Women should only reach orgasm through vaginal intercourse.
- Only women fake orgasms
- Something wrong with a woman if she is unable to reach orgasm
- An orgasm must be an earth-moving experience
- "Normal" women reach orgasm through genital pentration
Myth 1: Women take longer to reach orgasm than men.
This is a common myth which has not been supported by research.
The reason people believe this is that they don't understand the female arousal pattern.
Women's arousal patterns to a better orgasm are much different than men's and, as a result, they are physically prepared for intercourse later than men are.
The time from optimal arousal to orgasm is pretty much identical for both men and women.
The difference is in how long it takes to reach that level of arousal. Because men often don't know how to help their partners get to that point, it does seem to take longer. Once that's changed, however, men find their partners reach orgasm more quickly and even have multiple orgasms in quick succession.
Myth 2: Women should only reach orgasm through vaginal intercourse.
This is definitely not true but it's a myth that has caused us to take women's sexual needs for granted for a long time.
Thanks to the famous pyschologist Sigmund Freud, many men still today think that real women orgasm is obtain by the efforts of male thrusting.
Freud basically rejected the idea of clitoris orgasm.
Freud dismissed this type of stimulation as juvenile and believed it was important for women to become more sexually mature by focusing only on vaginal stimulation to reach orgasms.
The basic problem is based on biology.
Namely, that the vagina was not designed for orgasms.
FACT:
The vagina does not have the concentrated nerve endings thatis found in the clitoris.
As a result of Freud's efforts, women who could not reach orgasm through vaginal intercourse were considered to be "FRIDGID"
All sorts of methods were devised in an attempt to “liberate” women from their reliance on the clitoris for sexual pleasure.
Unfortunately the result of decades of misinformation has left both women and men confussed on how to actual obtain a better orgasm.
Myth 3: Only women fake orgasms.
Even though this article is about female orgasms, I think it’s important for both men and women to realize that orgasms are not going to happen during every sexual encounter.
About 1/5 of men surveyed revealed that they have faked an orgasm with a partner.
Their reasons for faking are the same as women's: they don't want their partners to be disappointed.
Orgasms don't always come easily in a relationships that last for 3 or more years.
Sure, when we masturbate we can probably get off every time because we know our bodies and we know what works.
Our sexual partners have to learn these things over time and, most importantly, with our help.
Again, faking orgasms is not the answer for either sex.
It just complicates the issue and prevents both partners from having a truly fulfilling sexual encounter.
So, bottom line: don’t believe all myths you hear or read! You can please women with the best orgasms if you understand how the female body works!
Gabrielle Moore is an expert in female orgasms. She is founder of FemaleOrgasmRevealed.com
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