How Information Overload
Underminds Romantic Relationships

How Couples can Keep the Passion Going and Going....

Romantic relationships are hard enough on their own. Whether it is young love, old love or new love their is one thing that couples can do the stay to keep the passion buring.

"Information kills relationships" (IKR) might sound funny at first, but take a second to think about it.

IKR refers to what happens when you just learn ideas, words, terms or facts without a meaningful context. Iotherwords, it is the passive reception of information.

I call this content-focused learning and it kills passion in the bedroom and neuters any self-improvement effort.With content-focused learning actions are completed without understanding the relationships between the terms and facts.

Think of robotic actions - when sexual health is approached through content focused learning it will always fail to produce any lasting passion or improved sexual health. The classic example to illustrate this danger is the plethora of books on sexual techniques to improve sex life (i.e. improve your orgasm in 3 steps).

As your Intuition knows, techniques alone are not sufficient because they are very limited in what they can do to improve sexual relationship, romantic relationships and sensual pleasure.

Instructions for your lover to move their fingers in figure 8 motions around the clitoris with three pounds of pressure rarely translate into an intense orgasm for women. We all have fallen into this trap at one time or another -- how many of us have purchased or borrowed a Kama Sutra book?

What where the results?

Think of the attitude you and your partner had towards using the book as a guide?

• Did you try variations and seek and learn from each other outside of the information in the book?

• Was it constructive?

• Or did you passively look at the pictures and try various positions moving from one position to the other -- judging the positions as stupid or too difficult?

• Did you share your understanding of the picture with your partner?

Hopefully these examples begin to sho now how information can kill the passion in intimacy and sexual relationships?

Building passion through understanding is time test art that is as old as the first kiss.

When information is used to construct new understanding, outside the source of the original information, a new relationship between people emerge.

What is really cool is how natural creativity will flow between couples.

Sparks of passion will certainly lead to the complete fulfillment of desire that will seems as fresh and new as if it were the very first time.

Ultimately, sexual problems exist within the context of a relationship and in life -- they are not only about bodies and bedrooms.

No book can account for all the contextual details of their readers. Information as content always has limited value - it is only a starting point and should never be confused with knowing.

In the real world sexual techniques must exist within a context between lovers.

Here is what you can do tonight to improve your romantic relationships....

Learn how to recognize when you fall into the content-learning trap and attempt to apply techniques as an experiment -- the key here is to be skeptical.

Play with the ideas rather that following them to the script. Do not attempt to predict expect results let the outcome reveal itself naturally.

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Author: Erik Kampe M.S., is a health author and expert in experiential learning. Erik removes the confusion of information overload and leads his clients in a process that teaches them how to become their own health expert. Experience an Odyssey of Body, Mind and Spirit.