How to Think About Anal Sex For
Maximum Pleasure And Safety

A New World Of Female Orgasm

The mystery of anal sex continues to intrigue couples everywhere which is a great thing, but...

...unfortunately, NOT many people talk about it openly.

This silence can often leave you thinking that your attraction to the idea of anal stimulation is somewhat sordid and lewd.

Or that it is something that only gay men and women enjoy.

So the first thing you need to accept is that more women just like you are doing it than you think.

If you had to guess, how many American women do you think have experimented with anal play?

According to a study by the Kinsey Institute in 1991, 30-40% of women have tried anal sex and 10-12% engage in it regularly [1].

I even these numbers are higher today.

Just think of how far we have come since 1991...

I think there has been a tremendous increase in openness about sex in general as a result of shows like HBO's "Sex in The City" and the "Vagina Monologues."

Love Hate Relationship

Anal Sex is one of those few words that can instantly bring forth both excitement and repulsion at the same time.

Regardless of your preceptions about anal play, the "tush" is a major erogenous zone.

In fact, the tush is involved in every orgasm, whether or not you directly touch it, and anal stimulation, including penitration, is not painful if done properly.

I highly recommend and challenge every women and man to dedicate time to discovery the true healing power of the female orgasm.

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If you have ever tried anal sex before you probably understand the potential of intimacy and connection it can bring to you and your partner.

Anal sex requires you to talk with each other from start to finish - what other sex act requires this much attention and focus from each partner at the same time?

The majority of articles on anal play gloss over this very important point.

The golden rule of "taking it very slowly" and allowing the receipient of anal sex to remain in control of the penetration is always mentioned.

But when we talk about anal sex only as "steps we take" we miss out on the greatest opportunity of anal play.

Anal sex is more than just "doing" it.

It is an opportunity to be with our partner - suspended in the ultimate act of trust.

When you do it right and master the art of anal sexual stimulation your prize is the ultimate sexual pleasure.

The heightened sexual response comes from not just the physical stimulation of an extremely erogenous zone - it also comes from a pyschological stimulation.

Anal Sex Tips That No Talks About

So, yes be prepared with a good silicon lubrication and follow the required preparation rituals to be clean and ready, but first and foremost, prepare and involve your soul and mind.

Open yourself to intimacy and let yourself be with your partner during anal sex.

Start off small, use your fingers, anal beads or butt pluggs.

And to eliminate worries about cleanliness, use silcon-based anal sex toys. These are non-porous so you can wash them effortlessly with soap and water.

Other toys made from porous materials (i.e. rubber and cyberskin) can also be used with condoms.

It is important to fully overcome your fears about anal sex.

Sex expert, Dr. Jack Morin has this to say:

"The taboo against anal eroticism is perpetuated by the almost universal belief among physicians that anal sex is inevitably dangerous.

No physical injury from anal stimulation results if both partners refuse to tolerate pain, never use force and avoid the use of drugs.

All the other risks center on sexually transmitted diseases.

.....To avoid this risk, anal intercourse and rimming should not be practiced casually.

Those who do enjoy anal intercourse should always use a condom. Rimming should always be accomplished by a latex barrier. Of course, in a monogamous realtionship with two healthy people, the risk of disease transmitted anally is reduced.

Thousands of men and women with chronic anal medical problems have restored their anal health by challenging their negative attitudes. This approach is indespensible for full erotic enjoyment of the anus... " [2]

 

Body, Mind, Spirit Connection

Prepare your body and mind to move throught the levels of comfort zones in complete comfort.

Never force your want to "do it" - create a relationship with yourself and partner and accept what your body will allow.

Nurture you progress.

Arguably, this is the last sexual frontier to explore.

Enjoy the adventure!

References:

1. Reinisch, J.M. (1991). The Kinsey Institute new report on sex: What you must know to be sexually literate. New York: St. Matin's Press.
   
   
2. Jack Morin, PhD,   10 Rules For Anal Sex, http://www.sexuality.org

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